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If it’s a news program, then the endless talk will about current events.

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This naturally leads to people wanting to endlessly discuss all kinds of topics (how many times have you heard the pseudo-expression “let’s keep an open dialogue”? And that opens the door for more and more discussions. I first eased into “safe” and boring topics like work and travel.

One night I had a date with a cute 29-year-old American girl. At some point we began talking about dating and she told me a story about her feminist friend who’s doing a Ph D on “cat calling.” I used that opportunity to ease further into other sexual topics. We were sitting across from each other, drinking beers and openly discussing various sexual topics.

The girl was strongly into the discussion, so I had to keep chugging along, listening to her viewpoints and, in exchange, share with her my own opinions.

It felt completely unnatural to drop the discussion and transition into emotional flirting.

It’s much less risky and requires much less confidence to merely your emotional interest in the other person—real spontaneous interest, interest that can be easily rejected by the other person.

This reminded me of a time when I went out with a friend in New York few years ago.

Again, I expected her to get a little uncomfortable, but, to my surprise, she boldly began sharing her opinions on this subject as thought she had discussed exactly this topic countless times before. It’s the fact that I wanted to genuinely flirt—flirt without all the politically correct bullshit on subjects that have already been discussed ad naseum—but I couldn’t.

I simply had no other choice but Flirting is sensual, emotional and imaginative.

Southern European cultures have pretty tough and “masculine” women; the stereotypical traditional Italian wife, for example, is very “tough” and “ball-busting” as demonstrated by her ability to run the house hold and even control her tough Italian husband. I wanted to put American dating under the microscope and study it like a scientist who studies microorganisms in his science lab.

The explanation that American women are “masculine” was way too simplistic and not good enough. On my recent trip to New York, I had some free time and decided to use it go out to bars and meet women. So, I forced myself to forget everything that I I knew about American women and dating in order to learn and relearn everything from the ground up.

One of the most popular explanations is that the American women are somehow “masculine,” but the meaning of the word is rather foggy.

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