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However, Min highlights that “the problem with stereotypes is not that they’re not true. I feel like this pearl of wisdom held a lot of validity and truth behind it.
“When I was young I felt that I wasn’t worthy,” he recalls.
“I was being rejected by a lot of people and I didn’t know why.” However, most of it changed for him when he went to live in the US.
“Some people respond to this by sticking with their own communities which result in the Asian corners in clubs or group stereotypes,” Min says.
“They are essentially creating safe spaces where they don’t feel awkward.” I also ask about “rice queens”, non-Asian men who specifically pursue Asian men.
He thinks this fosters sexual racism from others and from within.
“There have been many times in my life where I’d consider chatting with a guy only to stop myself because I thought he might not be into Asians,” he explains.Min affirms these experiences are definitely linked to racism.He also believes Asian gay men collectively experience exclusion and negative exchanges in the wider gay community.People’s stereotypes of Asians also came up, and there had even been times when people had scoffed at him because he refused to take the “bottom” position in sex.Joe throws back to the concept of a “whitewashed media” as he specifies an ideal that gay men worship: basically a white guy with abs.“IF you’re going to look for a husband, go to America or Europe.” Those words were from a well-travelled Asian who I met at a speed-dating event one night.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating