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I confronted him during the aftermath of D-Day, a couple of months ago, and told him that I felt abused by him and he just dismissed it with the comment that these were just “innocent bedroom games.” Another time I brought it up again and told him it was dehumanizing and I felt like I’d been used like a blow up doll, and he said, “Yes, well, the sex did get a little out of hand.” I also told him that a lot of the time I felt like I wasn’t even really there and in typical narcissist fashion he turned this around and used it to say that I was therefore admitting that I not there emotionally there for HIM.

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His favorite term in the last few years was to call me “his little fucktoy,” and I can’t remember a single instance of sex with him where I was not called a c**t, a whore, a slut, and many other names that now seem so creepy to me, like “hot little teenager.” He also verbalized rape fantasies on me and most of our sex actually only consisted of me giving him blowjobs on command.

There are some other horrific details that I have been telling my therapist, but before that I never told anyone about any of this.

I am 5 months from D-Day now and only 26 days NC, but learning so much from your site and others, and from my therapy.

But I continue to be mystified about the sexual angle and have not been able to figure it out: are lots of cheaters/narcissists also into dom/sub sex?

And when I kicked Ex out on D-Day, besides moving most of his personal possessions to OW’s house, he also moved his entire workshop and all his tools to that gay guy’s house.

I am coming to the conclusion that Ex is some type of sex addict, I’m just not sure.

All of his sexuality seems to revolve almost exclusively around servicing his you-know-what.

It seems that he would accept that servicing from anyone regardless of age or gender. I have now told my best friend and a few others including my daughter and my (gay) brother about this and they are all horrified that I did these things, and that I went along with it, and the tell me that he is sick, sick, sick.

His angry tantrums caused me and my kids to walk on eggshells all the time.

He would yell and scream over trivial “infractions” like a backpack being put in the wrong place.

People who know this woman from years ago tell me that she is a bossy, imperious woman and my Ex’s old girlfriend from before me (who I looked up online and talked to) even speculated that Ex was now the submissive and he was trying that out to see what it was like to be dominated himself. sent me, I see that she is about 4-5 inches taller than him, and when they were walking into a diner together, she grabbed his arm about halfway up between his wrist and elbow and was leading him by the arm.

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