Guys that best friend dating ex girlfriend reliquidating

So the question now is if you are actually OK with it not being a relationship or if you are going along with it in hopes it will turn into a relationship.

If you’re happy with everything as it is, then you have nothing to worry about – things will remain as they are unless he meets a girl that he wants to pursue for a relationship.

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Having a female best friend means she’ll be there to comfort you when you get rejected.

Sure, male best friends will try to make you feel better by distracting you with hours of Xbox, but a female best friend will actually listen to how you're feeling without judgement.

Essentially, they are single to the rest of the world, but they have you in their back pocket and they can enjoy all of the benefits of being in a relationship without any commitment.

The tough part about being in someone’s back pocket is that once they find someone they actually do want to date, you’re going to be sent packing.

All guys have that one best friend they have a bromance with.

But let’s face it: Guys are selfish and aren’t very good listeners.

I kind of doubt that he’s seeing other women since it’s likely one of his friends would have mentioned one of his other girls by now, especially if his friends don’t know that you have anything with each other.

When a guy is really proud of the relationship he’s in, he’ll usually want his friends to know he’s going out with you.

My bet is it has to do with him being embarrassed about dating you after your history with his friend.

He might be afraid that his friends would make fun of him for having relations with a girl his best friend dated, or he might be afraid of upsetting his best friend (even though the friend has moved on).

If he’s not, you should make a judgment call on whether or not you want to continue down this path.

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