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Every time I hear a woman saying that she “intimidates” men, this is what comes to mind. If you’re still finding that there isn’t one quality man in the world who wants a quality woman like you, I have to question something.First of all, you don’t want to be with a man who is intimidated by you. Just know that there ARE men out there who are looking for peers. I’ve had single parent clients find the love of their lives on Match.com, JDate and Nerve. But one thing I’ve learned from years of dating and dating coaching, is that there’s nothing to learn when placing the blame squarely on everybody else. There are quality men out there – even if they’re few and far between.
One reason that women rarely want to consider (and I’m not necessarily applying this to you, Joan), is that with their experience comes a darker lining.
Moxie hit it on the head in yesterday’s post that successful, intelligent woman can often be anxious, self-righteous, negative, and entitled.
I’m a 42 year old single mom who is very attractive (I look about 7 years younger), fun, has a great smile and laugh (and does both a LOT), emotionally stable, and not looking to race to the altar.
And I definitely fit the definition of a “cool chick” – and my guy friends will confirm:-).” Unfortunately, the pool of men that I’m dating from (early to mid 40s, usually divorced) are pretty messed up.
I am challenging you to consider why he’d choose them over you at all. We got to talking and I learned that, not surprisingly, he had a predilection for younger women. But for the men you’re interested in, the younger woman just has to be open and fun and easy to get along with. And if you’re not arriving at the answers yourself, it’s useful to get another perspective. Listen, if you’re dating online with a great profile, great photos, healthy flirting technique and a long-term subsecription, great.
In addition to the obvious physical attraction reasons, this man emphasized that it was so much EASIER to go out with a younger woman who has not yet been scarred by life. This is one of the things that women often ignore when they question the tastes of men. But I assume your question was not simply looking for validation: “You’re perfect. If you’re going out and doing things you love and putting yourself in the position to meet like-minded men, great.
A number of them want younger women (never mind that I look much younger) – didn’t anyone tell these guys that women hit their sexual prime over 40:-)?
I’m besieged by the 50 set even though our lives are completely different (like my kids are young and theirs are grown and they don’t want anymore).
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