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It’s actually a huge mistake to engage with him on that surface level and believe that’s who he really is.

Keep asking questions and exploring what he’s saying.

Go deep and really learn about his loves, his passions, and his interests.

Plus, I get to vicariously enjoy my favorite things as if I was seeing them again for the first time vicariously through her.

The more intensely interested you are, the more he’ll want to share with you…

By extension (and I wouldn’t start here), exploring the things that are really on a guy’s mind is a way to go really deep with a guy.

Women often miss this because they’re hypnotized by his “mask” – that is, the suave, cool, got-it-together appearance that the guy has on the surface.

MORE: 5 Things Every Girl Needs to Know About Men Another area to drill into is his activity passions – whether it’s business, rock climbing, playing guitar, chess, or even video games… Whether it’s winning at business or even living the social life they want, they need to feel like they’re a “winner” in the areas of life that are important to them.

Winning in the world essentially means that he’s getting what he wants to get out of life in the way he wants to get it.

Some men love sports, other men couldn’t care less about sports. Some men love fitness, some love leisure, some love humor.

Every man loves something and it is plain as day if you actually look for what your man loves.

It’s very important that you understand where in life he wants to be a winner since these are the areas of life that determine if he’s happy in life or not.

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