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I was devastated at the thought, but I think we're right.

One of my main areas of research is on how women compete amongst each other for mates.

Listening to a group of women who are active daters talk will often reveal the effort that is involved simply in terms of improving physical appearance.

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Related to this issue of competition is that many women try to determine what potential rivals are doing so that they can be unique, but not too unique as to become freakish.

Friends who are active daters have reported to me some of the backstabbing things they have done to each other, like saying "you look super" when they think their friend looks fat, or telling a friend that a guy they both like is gay or unavailable, just to deter the friend from competing.

Together, trying to put the best foot forward is not an easy undertaking if you are making the effort to find a good mate, especially if you are particularly self-conscious or have been away from the dating scene in a while.

The third issue is competing with other women for a good mate. Yes, by using good clothes and a winning personality one is competing against potential rivals for a keeper of a man.

There are three main sources of concern - the quality of the mate, the energies they have to undertake to self promote, and the competition they face.

I should preface the rest of this blog by saying that I don't know much about men's views of the dating world, as it's not part of my research, so I'm going to focus on women here.

I should mention that most of my research is based on young women, between 18-28 years of age.

Perhaps the situation is different among older crowds.

However, that pales in comparison to the competition women are in when it comes to sex.

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