are you the one chinese dating show - Valentines dating events

I will treat him to a nice date, though, just like I expect him to treat me to nice dates. I have friends, I have a church and my relationship with God, I have a family and pets…

Even a great date, filled with all sorts of grand things can’t repair all the “little moments” of neglect throughout the month.

In other words, I’m trying to give her a 10,000 point night, but it actually goes down in the “relationship books” as just 1 point.

And we don’t value what is just handed to us nearly as much.

Think about it: If he was some guy who was obsessed with trying to please you constantly in every way, you would think he was a pushover.

I have made it very obvious to my significant other how much I love it when he texts or does “little things” for me.

even though he rarely does it, I’ve let him know that just a simple email or text can make my day.The only reason why I fuss is because he promises me that he’ll change and he’ll be better and nicer but he’ll only tell me that over the phone. Ive tried making plans, but its hard to go through with them with his blatant disinterest. HOWEVER, I do have an idea of why I get romance and you don’t…Literally the only reason why I fuss is because he never listens/ keeps his promises. This valentines day I tried to really put it forward, that i wanted to go out for dinner, that i was baking him a blackforest cake, and would appreciate something of equal effort in turn. And now just finishing cleaning up all the dishes from baking said cake. At this point I would fall to my knees weeping in happiness over just a card made out of scrap paper. First off, there is a difference between being low maintenance in a good sense (low drama and attitude) vs in a bad sense (doing all the work to make the relationship happen).If the man doesn’t treat me at least as well as a friend treats me, he is dumped.Second, I respect myself – I don’t cancel stuff with friends just because he wants to see me.It’s important that he has a life of his own, I don’t try to take that away from him. I don’t need a guy for material support – I pay my own bills.

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